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choosing foie gras for your french wedding menu

February 27, 2010

I don’t want to jinx anything, but Spring does seem to be in the air here in Paris.  For those of you lucky enough to be planning a celebration in France this year, you’ll find that most venues will start releasing their Spring and Summer reception menus within the next few weeks.  If you’ve booked the venue for a wedding, one thing that you’ll notice that’s up front and center on any French wedding menu is the foie gras. Here’s a post from the parisian party wayback machine which demystifies this most Frenchiest of all Frenchy wedding menu staples:

French Wedding Menus Demystified. Part One: Foie Gras

February 19, 2008

foie_gras_picYesterday, I was speaking with a client in the States who is getting married in a château near Paris in a few months time. She was kind of frustrated because she wasn’t really sure exactly what was being presented to her for her wedding menu, and was concerned that her guests from the U.S. wouldn’t like what she served. Now, this a very smart, sophisticated bride from a major metropolitan city- she has traveled quite a bit, likes eating at nice restaurants, etc., so it’s not like she’s some Okie from Kanokie. I think part of her frustration may have been that she felt that she should know what the dishes were on the menu, but didn’t. After translating her menu for her, I realized that she probably wasn’t the only one to come up against this problem, and so I thought it may be helpful to demystify the French Wedding Menu for other Anglo brides who are getting married in France.

First Stop: Foie Gras. Armed with a basic French/English dictionary, it’s fairly simple to guess what many main courses are in a typical French menu: Poitrine de canard rotie aux epices (roasted duck with spices), Carre et selle d’agneau rotis (roasted lamb), Escalope de saumon a l’oseille (some sort of salmon dish, right?). But when you’re looking at the starters on French wedding menus, there are certain terms that tend to keep popping up- things like confit (duck confit, goose confit, etc), terrines (everything from vegetables to game), gelée and the ever-present Foie Gras.

Ask any French person and they’ll tell you: nothing says “wedding” like a big ole slab of foie gras. On any and every French wedding menu you’ll see it: Declinaison de foie gras de canard au pain d’epices, Foie gras de canard cuit au torchon, chutney poires raisins, Foie gras de canard maison à la fleur de sel de Camargue, Foie gras de canard traditionnel aux abricots confits, and on and on. A simple search on wikipedia will tell you what foie gras is: “the liver of a duck or a goose that has been specially fattened by gavage” (as defined by French law[1])”. It’s a savagely cruel process that will traumatize children and the faint at heart alike. It’s also delicious on brioche.

Duck (canard) foie gras is the most common and least expensive type of foie gras. When you’re selecting a duck foie gras, the important thing is to ask where the duck was raised (I know, but trust me- totally normal to do that here!) because the soil affects the overall taste of the foie gras. Most French people will tell you that the best ducks are from the southwest region, in Gers, but I honestly don’t think that the average Anglo could pick up on this nuance at this early stage of the game.

fois gras appetizer

fois gras appetizer

Goose (oie) foie gras is more expensive, and has a lighter, more creamier taste. A good quality goose foie gras shouldn’t have any specks or blemishes, so keep that in mind when tasting.

There are lots of different variations under the “foie gras” umbrella: There are the cooked foie gras like Mousse de foie gras and  Paté de foie gras, which are made up of 50 – 75% foie gras. Then there is foie gras entiér, which is 98- 100% liver.

All of the above will be taken into consideration in the pricing of your menu. When you’re meeting your catering manager for your tasting, make sure to confirm that the foie gras that you are tasting will be the same as that which will be served at your wedding.

For some reason, I’ve found that a lot of my American clients tend to assume that their guests won’t like foie gras, so I almost always ask either for a complete substitution or alternate starter selection early on in my discussions with a venue’s catering manager.  Foie Gras is such a staple at French weddings, though, it usually takes 3 or 4 “reminders” on my part for it to be completely dropped from the menu (I’ve even received faxed final confirmations with “foie gras” penciled back in- an eager secretary’s attempt to correct a potentially disastrous oversight).  As the French take their foie gras very seriously, rather than risk sounding disrespectful or persnickity, I merely tell the caterer that all of the American guests are vegetarians.  Even though this makes no sense what-so-ever, Americans have a reputation over here for being quirky, and “vegetarianism” seems to be a quirk that is easily accommodated- so I use that one a lot!

Whatever your feelings about foie gras- either the method in which it’s made, or simply the way it tastes, know that if you’re planning a wedding in France with either French caterers or guests, the subject is bound to come up- so you should have your spiel ready.

Next stop: The magical world of Gelée

a guide to lingerie shopping in paris

January 17, 2010

salon de la lingerie 2010

salon de la lingerie 2010

Ask any woman in the world where the most desirable lingerie comes from, and she’ll undoubtedly say Paris. No “Fruit of the Loom Boy Briefs” to be found here-  lacy, sexy, beautiful women’s undergarments are the staple in France.  As the lingerie capital of the world, Paris is hosting the 47th Salon International de la Lingerie at the Porte de Versailles in Paris next weekend from the 23rd - 25th of January.  For those in the industry, this event is a privileged opportunity to see some of the latest trends from over 500 international lingerie brands.  While this show is only open to the trade, there’s still no reason not to come to Paris for a lingerie shopping spree. Here’s a post that I wrote a few years ago that talks about some of the top boutiques to buy lingerie in Paris:

shopping for your parisian wedding trousseau

August 15, 2007

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parisian wedding trousseau

trous·seau, n. [French, from Old French, diminutive of trousse, bundle. See truss.] The possessions, such as clothing and linens, that a bride assembles for her marriage.

Back in the day, a young woman and her mother would start collecting and sewing items for her trousseau years before she was even engaged! They stored the items in a heavy hand-carved wooden wardrobe or trunk, and when it was complete, the trousseau contained everything that the girl owned- everything that she needed to start her new married life. Trousseaus could contain quilts, china, silverware, pillows or linens, in addition to clothing and lingerie. In Victorian times, it was even a la mode to host a “Trousseau Tea” the day before the wedding, where the brides family would invite people over and show off all of the items in the girls’ trousseau. Today’s trousseau contains gorgeous lingerie, luxurious toiletries, and fabulous going-away outfits, all packed up into beautiful luggage.

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chantal thomass

If you’d like to go on your own Parisian trousseau shopping spree, your first stop HAS to be the glamorous boudoir of Chantal Thomass at 211 Rue St Honoré. This shop is a paradise of intimate feminine goodies like bras, bustiers, stockings, and dressing gowns as well as froo-froo accessories like pink, lace-up umbrellas, and…black satin and lace hand-cuffs. Oh la laaaa!

Another queen of the intime is Fifi Chachnil. Since 1986, Fifi has been known for her gloriously feminine designs as well as her sense of humor and classic vintage style. Her lingerie is sold worldwide, but nothing beats a trip to one of her Parisian boutiques.

“Though’s in the know” know where to find the most famous French lingerie- they visit Sabbia Rosa at 73, rue des Sts-Pères. This tiny shop lives up to the hype and is a favorite of fashionistas like Madonna, Naomi Campbell and Catherine Deneuve.

annick goutal paris

annick goutal

One other major element of the modern bridal trousseau is fragrance- for your Parisian trousseau, peek your head into one of the Annick Goutal Boutiques and discover your new “signature scent”. Everything about these boutiques is feminine and flirty- and while you’re there, treat yourself to one of their Boudoir Treatments for the Face or Body (or both!)

If you want to try your hand at creating your own lune de miel fragrance, sign up for an “Atelier du Parfumerie” at the world renowned Guerlain boutique on the Champs Elysees.

Vuitton Trousseau Trunk

goyard

Once you have your trousseau together, you can’t just toss it into any old Samsonite! You still have a wedding to pay for, so don’t break the bank on nouveau LV, Hermes or Goyard. Instead, try scouting out Le Monde du Voyage in the Marche aux Puces at St-Ouen. This store has been specializing in vintage luggage for over 20 years, and will surely have the perfect valise to round out your Parisian bridal trousseau.

french party tradition: galette des rois

January 6, 2010

galette des rois

galette des rois

While in the States the holiday season has been over and forgotten about for nearly a week now, things are still going strong here in France. Today, January 6th, is the Epiphany, the day the 3 Kings arrived to see the baby Jesus.  In France, the Epiphany is celebrated with a Galette des Rois- a special “kings cake” made of layers of puff pastry and filled with frangipane (an almond-flavored paste). Although pretty yummy by itself,  the highlight of the Galette des Rois is finding the fève.  The fève is a small, ceramic figurine which is buried in the cake. Whoever finds the fève in their slice of cake gets to wear a paper crown and be King (or queen) for the day.  I can imagine that in the U.S. a hard, pointy figurine baked into a cake would be considered a safety risk, but that’s not at all the case here in France, with lines of galette-hungry customers snaking out of every bakery that you pass.

laissez les bon temps rouler!

laissez les bon temps rouler!

If you want to take part in the festivities, why not try this simple Galette des Rois recipe at home? A quick search on ebay pulls up a small (and pricey) selection of French fèves, but you can also do like they do in New Orleans and bake a small plastic baby in the King Cake instead. You can find the mini babies at any store that sells baby shower decorations. Vive le roi et vive la reine!