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Paris Wedding PlannerWouldn’t this make an awesome urban backdrop for a Paris wedding photo session? In the Square Jehan-Rictus, just behind the Abbesses metro station in Paris, stands a sweet tribute to one of the most popular phrases in the world: Le Mur des Je T’aime - The Wall of I Love You’s. Starting in 1992, French musician Frédéric Baron began collecting “I Love You’s” - asking neighbors, friends and strangers all around Paris to write “I Love You” in their own language on little pieces of paper . When he was finished, he had collected 1000 I Love You’s in over 300 languages, which he and artist/calligrapher Claire Kito then translated onto glazed lava tiles to create the wall.

The artist writes on his website: To go among others and ask them to write “I love you” is to create a passport which erases borders and opens hearts. I took note of it, but I understood at the same time, that it was not only a question of words and that love is subject to other laws. One day a civil servant from an Embassy of an African country told me: “you Westerners say I love you right away. In our country, a woman serves the best piece of meat on the plate to her man and that becomes a declaration of love”.wedding planner in paris Cocteau also said, “there is no love, there is only proof of love”.

One does not play with love. It is a serious affair. Even without knowing what I wanted to do with them, the “I love yous” took me a long way. They forced me to treat them like a real job. Please understand, I certainly do not pretend to have accomplished a scientific work: on the contrary, if this venture has succeeded it is because it has conserved its romantic side, its original purity. Men and women of all races and all walks of life have left their trace on paper like a gift fallen from heaven. A free gesture.”

Why not serenade your honey this Valentine’s Day with an I Love You in Wolof, Khmer or Lingala? Visit the wall’s website www.lesjetaime.com to find out how.

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For the Bride Spring 2008

Be sure to check out the current Spring 2008 Trends Issue of For The Bride magazine- where yours truly spreads the love all over trend #8. This special issue is available at news-stands across the U.S., or by ordering online at www.demetriosbride.com

French Wedding Tradition: Groom Selects the Bridal Bouquet

Are you ready for this one? Apparently, it’s a French wedding tradition that the Groom not only pays for, but selects the Bride’s bouquet and presents it to her when he picks her up on the way to the wedding ceremony. Can you imagine???? What’s even scarier is, according to a florist friend of mine, this little task often falls into the hands of the future mother-in-law, who apparently knows more about flowers than the future husband (but doesn’t necessarily know more about the bride…). This same florist told me horror stories of MIL’s not knowing the color or style of the French wedding traditionsbride’s dress, flower preferences, or even being able to describe the future daughter-in-law’s SIZE, but simply requesting a “wedding bouquet”. Yikes! I have to admit that this was all news to me, but found it to be common knowledge once I googled it. I seem to think that this may be followed by only the most traditional of French families. I did find an article that gave this advice to the hapless groom-to-be (translation is mine, but I think you get the gist):

“As the groom often can not see the dress before the wedding the bride should give him some pointers so that the ensemble will be harmonious.

The choice of bouquet is as follows:

* If the dress is long, the choice should be a vast bouquet, trailing, round or discreet.
* If the dress is short, the bouquet should be round or rather discreet so as not to mask the dress.

You also need to know that the more elaborate and large a bouquet is, the heavier it is, and therefore it may embarrass the bride.

Colored flowers are great, but the dominant color of a bridal bouquet is usually white even if different colored wedding gowns are growing increasingly popular these days.”

And so armed with these little tidbits, they’re sent on their way.

So, now I’ve got a question for both the girls AND the boys: Would you? COULD you??

Drop me a line and tell me what you think.